Understanding Teen Dating Violence & Promoting Healthy Relationships

As parents, it’s essential to recognize the warning signs of teen dating violence and equip your child with the knowledge to foster healthy relationships.

What is Teen Dating Violence?

Teen dating violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in a relationship where one partner seeks to gain power and control over the other. It can include:

Physical abuse – Hitting, shoving, or causing harm.
Emotional abuse – Insults, manipulation, or controlling behavior.
Digital abuse – Controlling social media, excessive texting, or tracking location.
Sexual abuse – Pressuring or forcing unwanted sexual activity.

Warning Signs to Look For

Sudden changes in mood or behavior.
Isolation from friends and family.
Fear of upsetting their partner.
Unexplained bruises or injuries.
Excessive texting or monitoring by their partner.

Promoting Healthy Relationships

Encourage your teen to build relationships based on:

Respect – Both partners should value each other’s feelings and boundaries.
Communication – Open and honest discussions about feelings and expectations.
Independence – Maintaining personal interests and friendships outside the relationship.
Trust – Feeling safe, supported, and free to be themselves.

How Parents Can Help

Start conversations early about healthy relationships.
Lead by example in your own relationships.
Encourage open dialogue and let your teen know they can come to you for support.
Know the resources available and where to get help.

For more information and a detailed Parent’s Guide to Teen Dating Violence, visit:
Love is Respect – Parent Guide

If you or someone you know is in danger, seek help from a trusted source or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).