As the year comes to a close, there’s often an unspoken expectation to reflect, to tally accomplishments, measure growth, and imagine a cleaner, brighter version of ourselves waiting on the other side of midnight. But real reflection doesn’t always look neat. Sometimes it’s quiet. Sometimes it’s emotional. Sometimes it’s simply noticing what felt heavy and what didn’t.

The holidays can be beautiful, full of lights, traditions, and moments that bring people together. But they can also be complicated, emotional, or unexpectedly heavy. For many young adults, December arrives with mixed feelings: excitement layered with stress, joy blended with uncertainty, and the pressure to appear cheerful even when things feel hard.

For many people, the holidays are a time of warmth, joy, and togetherness. But for others — especially young adults navigating complex family dynamics or emotionally heavy spaces — going home doesn’t feel simple. The idea of returning to your childhood home, reconnecting with relatives, or stepping back into old patterns can stir up anxiety, tension, or uncertainty.

The holidays are supposed to feel warm and bright — twinkling lights, familiar traditions, shared meals, and people you love gathered under one roof. But for many young adults, the season also brings complicated emotions. Going home can mean stepping back into old family roles, navigating tense dynamics, dodging personal questions, or trying to meet expectations you never agreed to in the first place.

Social media touches nearly every part of modern relationships — how they start, how they’re displayed, how they’re compared, and sometimes how they unravel. For teenagers and young adults especially, platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, and BeReal shape expectations about what love “should” look like. But behind the curated moments and trending sounds, harmful patterns can quietly take root.

There’s a common misconception that safety planning is just for people in crisis, but that isn’t the case. This process is a proactive tool that helps individuals protect themselves, stay prepared, and make intentional decisions when it matters most, regardless of their current circumstances. Whether someone is navigating a difficult relationship, concerned about control or monitoring, or simply wants to be ready for unexpected situations, a thoughtful safety plan increases confidence and security.

It’s never been easier to start a relationship or easier to misunderstand what a healthy relationship looks like. Young adults often navigate love and dating at the intersection of social media culture, fast-moving communication, and constant digital connection. Because of this, early warning signs of unhealthy behavior can be harder to spot, easier to explain away, and sometimes even mislabeled as “romantic.”

Technology has made it easier than ever to stay connected, find lost items, and share our locations with people we trust. But those same tools can be misused to monitor, control, and silently follow someone without their consent. This kind of behavior is often called digital stalking or technology-facilitated abuse, and it can be deeply frightening and disorienting.

When someone you care about is in a relationship that feels “off,” it can be difficult to know what to say, or whether to say anything at all. You may notice isolation, sudden behavior changes, secrecy, anxiety around texting, or a partner who seems controlling or unpredictable. But approaching the conversation can feel intimidating. You don’t want to overstep, push too hard, or lose your friend’s trust.

Young adults today live in a world where relationships unfold across text messages, social media, apps, and shared locations. Technology connects us, but it can also create new pathways for control, manipulation, and harm. 

When someone you love goes missing, every moment becomes charged with fear, confusion, and urgency. You may feel pulled in a dozen directions at once — call everyone you know, search endlessly on social media, chase potential clues, or hold back out of fear of “doing the wrong thing.” It is one of the most emotionally overwhelming experiences a family can face.

Strangulation in domestic violence is a deadly warning sign that should never be ignored. It is not just an act of violence, it is an attempt to control, terrorize, and potentially kill.

Image credit: Training Institute on Strangulation Prevention

Read Tiffany’s story about how she found herself in an abusive relationship a second time. “Don’t just look for bruises. Look for uncharacteristic changes. Look for silence. For the girl who stopped dreaming. The one who used to call but suddenly doesn't. That’s your red flag.”

According to National Missing and Unidentified Persons System (NamUs),  over 600,000 individuals go missing in the United States every year. Fortunately, many missing children and adults are quickly found, alive and well. However, tens of thousands of individuals remain missing for more than one year – what many agencies consider “cold cases”.

Your computer and phone activity can be monitored without your knowledge, and browsing history is never fully erased. Emails can be intercepted, GPS trackers hidden in personal items, and court records may expose private information online.

Essentially, Gabby freed me from blaming myself for the abuse I have received, demonstrated the reality of what it means to be a victim (which took away the shame), and came to represent a triumph over abuse.

How does a mother sum up her child’s life? It is impossible to put it completely on paper or into words.

Do you ever wonder if you or someone you love is the victim of domestic violence?