Breakups are emotional. People grieve, feel confused, and often want answers that don’t exist. Reaching out once or twice after a relationship ends can be part of processing that loss.

Stalking is more than isolated incidents. It’s a pattern of repeated behavior that causes fear, intrusion, and loss of autonomy. Yet because many stalking behaviors begin subtly, people often dismiss them as persistence, affection, or normal relationship interest. Recognizing stalking early, especially when it’s not yet extreme, can save lives.

Breakups are emotional. People reach out, try to get closure, or struggle to let go, and that’s normal. But sometimes, what feels like a “messy breakup” is actually something more serious: a pattern of behavior that crosses into stalking.

Technology plays a central role in modern relationships. Location sharing, shared passwords, and constant communication are often framed as signs of closeness or trust, but in some situations, these behaviors can quietly cross into control.

Jealousy is one of the most misunderstood emotions in relationships. It’s often framed as passion, devotion, or proof that someone cares deeply. Movies romanticize it. Social media jokes about it. Friends may even reassure one another that jealousy is “normal.”

Many people wonder why someone stays in a relationship that causes harm. From the outside, the answer may seem obvious, but from the inside, the reality is far more complex.

January marks National Stalking Awareness Month (NSAM) - a time dedicated to recognizing stalking for what it is: a serious, dangerous, and often misunderstood crime. Now in its 22nd year, NSAM is a national call to action to improve awareness, support victims, and hold offenders accountable - not just this month, but all year long.

The days after the holidays can feel surprisingly quiet. The gatherings end, routines resume, and the emotional noise of December fades. For many people, this is when stress, loneliness, or unresolved feelings surface, especially for those who may have struggled quietly through the season in order to put on a brave face.

The holidays are often portrayed as a time of connection, joy, and closeness, but once they end, many people feel an emotional crash. Decorations come down, routines return, and the quiet of January settles in. For many people of all ages, this is when relationship stress becomes more noticeable, not less.

New Year’s Eve carries a strange kind of energy. There’s anticipation, reflection, pressure, and often a quiet undercurrent of uncertainty. As midnight approaches, many people feel the weight of expectation: to feel hopeful, motivated, certain, or renewed.

As the year comes to a close, there’s often an unspoken expectation to reflect, to tally accomplishments, measure growth, and imagine a cleaner, brighter version of ourselves waiting on the other side of midnight. But real reflection doesn’t always look neat. Sometimes it’s quiet. Sometimes it’s emotional. Sometimes it’s simply noticing what felt heavy and what didn’t.

Social media touches nearly every part of modern relationships — how they start, how they’re displayed, how they’re compared, and sometimes how they unravel. For teenagers and young adults especially, platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, and BeReal shape expectations about what love “should” look like. But behind the curated moments and trending sounds, harmful patterns can quietly take root.

There’s a common misconception that safety planning is just for people in crisis, but that isn’t the case. This process is a proactive tool that helps individuals protect themselves, stay prepared, and make intentional decisions when it matters most, regardless of their current circumstances. Whether someone is navigating a difficult relationship, concerned about control or monitoring, or simply wants to be ready for unexpected situations, a thoughtful safety plan increases confidence and security.

It’s never been easier to start a relationship or easier to misunderstand what a healthy relationship looks like. Young adults often navigate love and dating at the intersection of social media culture, fast-moving communication, and constant digital connection. Because of this, early warning signs of unhealthy behavior can be harder to spot, easier to explain away, and sometimes even mislabeled as “romantic.”

Young adults today live in a world where relationships unfold across text messages, social media, apps, and shared locations. Technology connects us, but it can also create new pathways for control, manipulation, and harm.